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# Goodguys2Greatmen LLC: We help men who want MORE from their life and relationships to be confident, considerate AND MASCULINE so that they can have PASSION, AFFECTION and INTIMATE CONNECTION whenever they want.

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## Posts
- [When Your Wife Says You’re Being Needy in Marriage](https://goodguys2greatmen.com/when-your-wife-says-youre-being-needy-in-marriage/): This is one of the most common "I call B.S." moments I get on articles and videos.  A guy was commenting on this article of mine in the Good Men Project site. It was about "neediness" in marriage.
- [What Your Wife Needs to Feel Before She’ll Ever Want to Be Physical Again](https://goodguys2greatmen.com/what-your-wife-needs-to-feel-before-shell-ever-want-to-be-physical-again/): Your wife may not be rejecting your body.
- [How To Respond To Abuse Or Emasculation From Your Wife](https://goodguys2greatmen.com/how-to-respond-to-abuse-or-emasculation-from-your-wife/): I received a challenge today by a long term member in our community.
- [How To Handle The Lack Of Physical Affection In Your Marriage](https://goodguys2greatmen.com/how-to-handle-the-lack-of-physical-affection-in-your-marriage-2/): You've been having some sexy dreams...or not.
- [How to Reignite the Attraction When Your Wife Says it’s Gone](https://goodguys2greatmen.com/how-to-reignite-the-attraction-when-your-wife-says-its-gone/): The most frequent question I get from clients trying to resuscitate intimacy in their relationship is:
- [How To Avoid Making This Mistake Which Turns Off Your Wife](https://goodguys2greatmen.com/how-to-avoid-making-this-mistake-which-turns-off-your-wife/): It's messy, bloody, greasy and gooey.
- [How To Reestablish The Trust Passion & Intimacy With Your Wife](https://goodguys2greatmen.com/how-to-reestablish-the-trust-passion-intimacy-with-your-wife/): Have you ever read an advice column question and started to answer it before you read the "expert's" answer? 
- [How To Stop Overreacting To Your Wife](https://goodguys2greatmen.com/how-to-stop-overreacting-to-your-wife/): Fred was arguing with his wife. Again.
- [How To Stop Sabotaging The Intimacy You Want](https://goodguys2greatmen.com/how-to-stop-sabotaging-the-intimacy-you-want/): When it comes to the things you really, really want are you "outcome dependent"?
- [How To Take Your Own Red Pill Not Someone Else’s](https://goodguys2greatmen.com/how-to-take-your-own-red-pill-not-someone-elses/): I wish I had a dollar for every time I've been asked, "Hey Steve, what do think about this Red Pill thing?"
- [How Blake Saved His Marriage](https://goodguys2greatmen.com/how-blake-saved-his-marriage/): This is last of coach Garrett Prettyman's 7-part series about Blake and Molly's journey through some really challenges.
- [Your Wife Needs You To Have A Different Kind Of Confidence](https://goodguys2greatmen.com/your-wife-needs-you-to-have-a-different-kind-of-confidence/): There's a very special trait many of the men in our "tribe" have in common and it drives them absolutely crazy.
- [What Your Withdrawn Wife Needs From You But Can’t Ask For](https://goodguys2greatmen.com/what-your-withdrawn-wife-needs-from-you-but-cant-ask-for/): Does your wife or girlfriend sometimes act like she would rather be anywhere on this planet but with you?
- [What I Had To Learn Before I Could Create A More Passionate Marriage](https://goodguys2greatmen.com/what-i-had-to-learn-before-i-could-create-a-more-passionate-marriage/): Do you ever worry that you could be "let go" from your job as husband at any moment?
- [How To Keep The Spark Of Fun & Passion In Your Relationship](https://goodguys2greatmen.com/how-to-keep-the-spark-of-fun-passion-in-your-relationship/): Have you ever had that "not so fresh" feeling?
- [How To Feel More Happy And Confident As A Man](https://goodguys2greatmen.com/how-to-feel-more-happy-and-confident-as-a-man/): I'm typing this email to you at 8:00pm in the evening with a runny nose and annoying cough.
- [How To Stop Feeling Exhausted About Your Unhappy Marriage](https://goodguys2greatmen.com/how-to-stop-feeling-exhausted-about-your-unhappy-marriage/): I was running through the woods the other day on my quest to lose a few of my summer pounds.
- [How To Own Your Healthy Masculinity](https://goodguys2greatmen.com/how-to-own-your-healthy-masculinity/): Toxic masculinity...toxic masculinity...toxic masculinity!
- [What To Do If You Don’t Feel Confident With Your Wife Anymore](https://goodguys2greatmen.com/what-to-do-if-you-dont-feel-confident-with-your-wife-anymore/): Even though the men I work with are rock stars in the domain of their chosen profession, they can't say the same when they walk through the door of their own home.
- [What To Do When Your Wife Is Disengaging From The Relationship](https://goodguys2greatmen.com/what-to-do-when-your-wife-is-disengaging-from-the-relationship/): In today's article I want to help you avoid some of the most common and detrimental mistakes men make when noticing some unsettling behaviours in your wife.
- [How To Create The Spark Of Attraction Again (Even If She Said It’s Gone)](https://goodguys2greatmen.com/how-to-create-the-spark-of-attraction-again-even-if-she-said-its-gone/): We're heading toward divorce, so at this stage, do I still fight to try and save the marriage?  
- [Why Your Wife Gives Affection To The Kids And The Dog But Not You](https://goodguys2greatmen.com/why-your-wife-gives-affection-to-the-kids-and-the-dog-but-not-you/): Have you ever uttered these words under your breath?
- [How To Create More Trust In Your Marriage](https://goodguys2greatmen.com/how-to-create-more-trust-in-your-marriage/): Have you ever heard these phrases about TRUST?
- [Does Your Bad Girl Wife Need Some Of Your Bad Boy Energy?](https://goodguys2greatmen.com/does-your-bad-girl-wife-need-some-of-your-bad-boy-energy/): Let's start with this...what's a "bad boy"?
- [How To Make Real Lasting Changes In Your Marriage](https://goodguys2greatmen.com/how-to-make-real-lasting-changes-in-your-marriage/): From 1999 to 2005 I owned and operated a Bed & Breakfast (and Horse Hotel) in the mountains of northern Colorado.
- [Struggling With Anxiety About Your Marriage?](https://goodguys2greatmen.com/struggling-with-anxiety-about-your-marriage/): The #1 affliction men have when they first realise that their marriage is in trouble is....
- [How To Stop Feeling Anxious About Your Marriage](https://goodguys2greatmen.com/how-to-stop-feeling-anxious-about-your-marriage/): Sometimes we get our best ideas at the most awkward times...like on the toilet.
- [What To Do When Your Wife Is Giving You Mixed Messages](https://goodguys2greatmen.com/what-to-do-when-your-wife-is-giving-you-mixed-messages/): We regularly run live coaching sessions with guys like you to gather men together, answer questions and give each other some brotherly support.
- [When There’s No Affection in Your Marriage Anymore](https://goodguys2greatmen.com/when-theres-no-affection-in-your-marriage-anymore/): I won't beat around the bush. I haven't been completely honest with you.
- [When Your World Seems Dark How Do You Find The Light Again?](https://goodguys2greatmen.com/when-your-world-seems-dark-how-do-you-find-the-light-again/): I say this about 20 times a week.
- [Is This Sabotaging Your Sex Life (It Was For Me)](https://goodguys2greatmen.com/is-this-sabotaging-your-sex-life-it-was-for-me/): Here's the most common sentence men type at the top of my consultation application.
- [How Men Accidentally Damage The Intimacy In Their Marriages](https://goodguys2greatmen.com/how-men-accidentally-damage-the-intimacy-in-their-marriages/): One way to get unconditional love and affection and to be given god-like status is to pay for it.
- [Can’t Get Your Wife To Do What You Want – Now What?](https://goodguys2greatmen.com/cant-get-your-wife-to-do-what-you-want-now-what/): I'll never forget the words of a ruddy old horse trainer and the look on his client's face when he heard them.
- [How To Never Take Things Personally Again](https://goodguys2greatmen.com/how-to-never-take-things-personally-again/): Get this, from our trusty news media...
- [How To Stop Your Anxious Mind Running Your Life](https://goodguys2greatmen.com/how-to-stop-your-anxious-mind-running-your-life/): Here's one fact I know about a man's sex life.
- [What To Do About Her Need For Space](https://goodguys2greatmen.com/what-to-do-about-her-need-for-space/): Every single time we talk about a woman "wanting space", we inevitably hear from some pissed of men telling us there's no hope.
- [How Logic Short Circuits The Connection In Your Marriage](https://goodguys2greatmen.com/how-logic-short-circuits-the-connection-in-your-marriage/): I've got a LOT of clients who are IT professionals, engineers, doctors, lawyers and other techie types who are apparently misunderstanding something I teach.
- [How To Keep Attraction Alive In Your Marriage](https://goodguys2greatmen.com/how-to-keep-attraction-alive-in-your-marriage/): I read something really funny the other day.
- [How To Confidently Respond To Your Wife’s Negative Feedback](https://goodguys2greatmen.com/how-to-confidently-respond-to-your-wifes-negative-feedback/): Do you find yourself in patterns of connection and then disconnection with your wife?
- [How to Not Drown and Die in Your Marriage…STOP STRUGGLING!](https://goodguys2greatmen.com/how-to-not-drown-and-die-in-your-marriage-stop-struggling/): First, thanks to Leon in our private Facebook group for posting this in the group. It's a perfect metaphor for men who are always "struggling" to stay alive in their marriage.
- [What To Do When Your Wife Is Contemplating Divorce](https://goodguys2greatmen.com/what-to-do-when-your-wife-is-contemplating-divorce/): I often say that one of the biggest factors leading to divorce is a man's FEAR of divorce.
- [How To Bring Your Dying Marriage Back To Life](https://goodguys2greatmen.com/how-to-bring-your-dying-marriage-back-to-life/): "She says she doesn't trust me anymore."
- [How To Know Whether To Work On Or End Your Marriage](https://goodguys2greatmen.com/how-to-know-whether-to-work-on-or-end-your-marriage/): I work with a lot of men who are standing on the hairy edge of major decisions.
- [What Holds Most Men Back From Creating The Marriage They Really Want](https://goodguys2greatmen.com/what-holds-most-men-back-from-creating-the-marriage-they-really-want/): It's "bizarro world" when your marriage starts to fall apart. Things that used to make sense no longer makes sense.
- [How To Stop Your Marriage Feeling So Lonely](https://goodguys2greatmen.com/how-to-stop-your-marriage-feeling-so-lonely/): I recently took a trip back east to my old stomping grounds to spend time with two very good, old friends. We stayed on my buddy's huge boat near Ocean City, MD. It was to be a "boys weekend" just to relax and chill.
- [How To Stop The State Of Your Marriage Overwhelming You](https://goodguys2greatmen.com/how-to-stop-the-state-of-your-marriage-overwhelming-you-2/): Guess what men report as their #1 issue when they are staring into the face of a pending separation or divorce.
- [What To Do When Your Wife Shames Your Sexual Drive](https://goodguys2greatmen.com/what-to-do-when-your-wife-shames-your-sexual-drive/): Do you ever feel ashamed about your sexual desire and horniness for your wife's affection and attention?
- [How To Create Attraction When Your Wife Isn’t Interested](https://goodguys2greatmen.com/how-to-create-attraction-when-your-wife-isnt-interested/): I talked to a man today whose wife has been detached, disinterested, dismissive and disrespectful.
- [Why Trying to Make Your Critical Wife Happy Never Works](https://goodguys2greatmen.com/why-trying-to-make-your-critical-wife-happy-never-works/): I'll make this short and sweet.
- [What Does Strong Masculine Leadership Look Like](https://goodguys2greatmen.com/what-does-strong-masculine-leadership-look-like/): It takes only ONE bold decision to get what you want.

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- [Living Fearlessly – Year 3](https://goodguys2greatmen.com/living-fearlessly-year-3/): Author and poet, Samuel Johnson puts it this way:
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- [Worldwide Divorce Rates](https://goodguys2greatmen.com/worldwide-divorce-rates/): How to Understand and Compare the Worldwide Divorce RateDivorce is a common phenomenon in many countries, but how common is it exactly? How do we measure the divorce rate and how does it vary across countries and regions?
- [Alcohol Related Divorce Rates](https://goodguys2greatmen.com/alcohol-related-divorce-rates/): Is your marriage being affected by alcohol? Does alcohol consumption have an influence on the likelihood of you staying married or getting divorced?
- [Non-Mental Health Related Divorce Rates in the UK & USA](https://goodguys2greatmen.com/non-mental-health-related-divorce-rates-in-the-uk-usa/): Is your marriage struggling & heading towards divorce? If there are no obvious mental health issues, what are the other factors that influence the likelihood of you staying married or getting divorced?
- [Autism Related Divorce Rates](https://goodguys2greatmen.com/autism-related-divorce-rates/): Is your marriage being affected by autism (ASD)? Does autism have an influence on the likelihood of you staying married or getting divorced?
- [Divorce Rates by Job Title](https://goodguys2greatmen.com/divorce-rates-by-job-title/): Is your marriage being affected by your job or career? Does your choice of career have an influence on the likelihood of you staying married or getting divorced?
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- [Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) Related Divorce Rates](https://goodguys2greatmen.com/borderline-personality-disorder-bpd-related-divorce-rates/): Is your marriage being affected by borderline personality disorder (BPD)? Does borderline personality disorder have an influence on the likelihood of you staying married or getting divorced?
- [Narcissism and Narcissistic Personality Disorder Divorce Rates](https://goodguys2greatmen.com/narcissism-and-narcissistic-personality-disorder-divorce-rates/): Is your marriage being affected by Narcissism and Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD)? Does Narcissistic Personality Disorder have an influence on the likelihood of you staying married or getting divorced?
- [Divorce Advice Articles For Men](https://goodguys2greatmen.com/divorce-advice-articles-for-men/): A collection of all the divorce advice articles for men from Goodguys2Greatmen.
- [Divorce Advice Videos For Men](https://goodguys2greatmen.com/divorce-advice-videos-for-men/): A collection of all the divorce advice videos from Goodguys2Greatmen.
- [Bipolar Disorder Divorce Rates](https://goodguys2greatmen.com/bipolar-disorder-divorce-rates/): Is your marriage being affected by bipolar disorder? Does bipolar disorder have an influence on the likelihood of you staying married or getting divorced?
- [Gambling Related Divorce Rates](https://goodguys2greatmen.com/gambling-related-divorce-rates/): Is your marriage being affected by gambling? Does gambling have an influence on the likelihood of you staying married or getting divorced?
- [Mental Health Divorce Rates & Causes Of Divorce](https://goodguys2greatmen.com/mental-health-divorce-rates-causes-of-divorce/): Is your marriage being affected by mental health issues? Does mental health have an influence on the likelihood of you staying married or getting divorced?
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