By: Steve Horsmon My work with married men reveals a lot of patterns. While each relationship is unique, they tend to fall into a few recognizable categories with familiar dynamics and behaviors. One particular category is one I call the “I Wish He Would Step Up” condition. One way I can detect this state is when I hear a client say things like: What more can I do? How perfect do I have to be? I just don’t understand what she wants Why isn’t she just satisfied with who I am? She is never happy with my efforts I have zero complaints about her but she never seems happy with … Continue reading →