Our Men’s Coaches
I want to personally introduce you to some of the most powerful men’s coaches in the world! These are men of deep wisdom, solid character and unmatched skills in coaching men through the toughest parts of their lives.
They were hand picked by me based on their depth of intelligence and compassion. These coaches have dedicated a year of their life in an intense certification process in order to support my Goodguys2Greatmen community of men. I trust my life with them and, more importantly, I trust them with you.
It’s no secret that men around the world need qualified man-to-man support and mentorship now more than ever. As a result, I needed to train more coaches to keep up with the demand for high quality, transformational coaching for men. As we receive your application for a consultation call you may be matched up with one of these coaches from the start. We match applicants based on various things like geography, age, personal goals and background.
Each man you’re about to meet is the most caring, compassionate, intelligent, grounded and wise man you may ever know. I can’t wait for you to meet them!
Dan Dore – GG2GM Master Coach and Strategic Consultant
Hey men, I’m Dan Dore from Derbyshire, England. I’m fortunate to live near to some of the most beautiful, natural and ancient countryside in the Peak District and Yorkshire Dales.
Ever since becoming a father I’ve been on a path of learning and development to improve how I lead by example in my relationships with my wife and kids.
There have been many difficult moments and decisions along the way which led me to training to be a coach here at Goodguys2Greatmen with Steve. It was the best decision I have ever made – no question.
I’m a men’s coach first and foremost because I care and I know I can help you get a better understanding of what you’re struggling with and move into a more exciting and fulfilling future.
I’ve been through many of the same challenges you have, from growing up as a man in today’s society, to learning how to keep the connection and passion in a marriage (now over 25 years) and also as a father of two young men and one young woman.
I place the health and wellbeing of each man I coach as my number one priority and intention.
What that means is that I promise to serve each of you more powerfully than any other person in your life is able to.
I’m not here to be your friend, I’m here to challenge you to move away from the comfort and fear that you’ve found yourself trapped by, and to step into BEING the man that you LOVE to be.
I’m on your side but that also means that I’m not afraid to tell you what you need to face up to if you want to make fast improvements to your life and relationships.
I’m not afraid to say that I have an amazingly fulfilling job. I love being challenged to reconnect a man with his innate self-worth and bring out his true character and confidence.
It’s amazing how often I hear men say “I knew this relaxed, self-confident, funny, loving, generous and powerful man was inside me all this time, but I just lost trust in being myself and thought putting everyone else’s needs first would make them happy.”
What happens once a man is truly BEING the man he loves to be?
He laughs…A LOT
He gives and receives affection…A LOT
He is honest…ALWAYS
And he takes responsibility to CREATE relationships that reciprocate his values for a passionate and fulfilling life.
Ask me how I know…
Jeff Allen – Certified GG2GM Coach
You’re thinking, “wtf just happened?”
She “loves you but not IN love with you.” She’s shutdown or overly critical. She doesn’t feel passion/connection/respect for you any more. (Read: Very little sex if any.)
I was you 5 years ago. In pain, confused, angry. I didn’t have anyone to talk with about this.
Then I found GoodGuys2GreatMen, and it changed my life.
I live steps away from the gorgeous Rocky Mountains here in Colorado. I have a phenomenal sex life, a fantastic relationship, and amazing connection with my woman.
Now I’m a professional men’s coach and have been working with men for over 2 years. I help guys from (literally) all around the world have fantastic relationships, phenomenal sex, and more respect.
I work with guys that have “tried to do everything right, but it ain’t working.” She may have already dropped the “D” bomb on you, or you fear it’s coming soon. You fear losing your girl. You fear losing your kids. You fear the shame of having a “failed relationship.” (What will people think?)
It’s time to reach out for help. I have helped dozens of men “take their balls out of her purse,” gain their self-respect, and have [email protected] awesome relationships.
Now it’s your turn. Contact me now for a consult call. No strings attached.
Lotsa love, brother.
PS. You wouldn’t believe me if I told you how many clients of mine have said, “… and then we had sex for the first time in months!”
Dennis Collins – Certified GG2GM Coach
My favorite client quote is without a doubt “it’s like I’ve been given a decoder ring and now understand what she means as I look back and realize it’s not all about me.”
This is how many men feel after they work with me, or the other coaches. There is one thing I think every man I have worked with has said……”Why haven’t we been taught this before?”
Personally, this is how I see my mission, our mission……….to help teach men this, so they can help friends, and teach their children this as well. My goal is to change a man’s legacy, and change one family tree at a time. Every man needs this decoder ring.
I’m Dennis Collins on of the GG2GM certified coaches and I live dead center in the middle of the country in the Kansas City area.
About 16 years ago I was caught off guard when. My wife said, “I want a divorce”. We were the first couple of anyone I knew who was getting divorced. I had no one to talk to, no one to turn to. I went down a deep dark hole. I was depressed and angry and sure as hell didn’t know what or how to help myself. I consider myself lucky and managed to escape the darkness. Nobody gave me a decoder ring, and I ended up divorced. I did everything wrong a man could do, I mean everything……..and back then I would have blamed my ex for almost 100% for the divorce, but now I see my part in it getting to there.
A year or so later friends and others I knew started getting divorced. I saw men going down the same wrong path I went down into despair. I made it a point to talk to them personally and get them to understand it was going to be okay. I made it a point to do everything I could to keep them from going down as deep into the darkness is I did. This was the year I started inviting anyone recently separated or divorced to join me Thanksgiving or Christmas dinner if they were going to be alone. Honestly, this may have fed my soul as much as it helped these men.
I spent years been looking for the right venue to turn my desire to help other men into the full-time coaching practice that I have now. Nothing seemed like the right fit until I found GG2GM. The focus on men’s confidence, masculinity and taking care of themselves 1st as a cornerstone to taking care of their family and relationships made it just feel right. It was a no brainer when I had the opportunity to be trained to become a coach under Steve and Dan’s guidance. I was hell yes from the get-go.
Now as I live my passion, my calling of helping men I am also one of the prototypical happy divorced men Steve talks about. I have an amazing life filled with friends, family, travel, and a beautiful woman I love. I enjoy this life from a calm centered optimistic attitude do not apologize for being the authentic me.
I love helping men pass through what is the most difficult time of their lives. I love working with the guys who get the need to do the work on themselves, for themselves. I am always hell yes on those that dive in without judgment about how they used to be and work toward the amazing life ahead. There’s nothing more awesome than seeing them flip the switch and take charge of their lives. There is no growth if you just stare at the rear view mirror or blame and stay angry at your wife.
My mission is to help men see, and move towards a future is amazing and fully in there control as long as they work on themselves. Often they are lost just needing somebody to act as their GPS to get them back on track. Part of the reason I do this work is I didn’t have anyone to do that for me and I went through a lot of additional pain suffering and almost threw a lot of good things away in my life.
One by one I strive to help men become a calm, confident, example of their wonderfully masculine self that leaves a legacy that lives on long after they are gone.
Mark Drezga – Certified GG2GM Coach
My name is Mark Drezga and I live in Melbourne, Australia.
Residing at the foot of Mount Dandenong, 5 mins away from both dense bush and urban sprawl, I am constantly reminded of the stark difference between our natural state of calm and peace and where we tend to spend most of our time in the midst of noise and chaos.
My journey began the moment I realized how woefully under-prepared I was for life’s unexpected changes and challenges. By refusing to grow up and live the life of a mature adult male, I relegated my own sense of control to those closest to me and when they tired of the burden and chose not to lead me any longer, I tumbled (face first) into anxiety and anger.
Without a navigator, I had nowhere to go and my mind became fixated on the uncertainty of life. The certainty that I thought I had, was an illusion.
Insecurity and self doubt were my new best friends, so it was time to grow-the-fuck up, stop complaining and begin creating the life that I wanted for myself.
“There is soo much that I didn’t know…..” I lamented. And with that epiphany, I began to learn.
The most difficult challenge was getting comfortable with being uncomfortable and understanding that life IS uncomfortable; and the constant desire to change and control things external of me, brought light to the simple truth that I could not – but most importantly – I didn’t need to anyway.
The power was not to be found in becoming a master of manipulation or coercion of my circumstances, but to recognize the strength and ability I already had to respond to life’s challenges as the man that I chose to be. I just needed some help to work out who it was that I DID want to be.
The power of acceptance allowed me to relax into enjoying life, allowing others to make their choices, knowing full-well that I would make mine.
Working with men of integrity, compassion and love challenges me to better myself by helping them better themselves. The responsibility and privilege of being a role model to my own children extends to them as well. I practice what I preach and am held accountable by the love that courses through me.
To be there when the curtain is drawn and they realise that it will never come down again, is both beautiful and humbling. To hear stories of how their wives slowly open up and allow themselves to relax into being their lover and not their mother brings a smile to my dial!
To watch a man make a choice to not only survive the divorce he never wanted, but to go onto thrive despite it – further cements my belief that the only way to have the life that you want; is to be the type of man that creates it.
Jonathan Mather – Certified GG2GM Coach
I’m a man who has walked in your shoes and hit the wall at high speed in relationships and life. I’ve had my career, family and marriage crumble all at once leaving me raw and vulnerable. And I’ve survived.
While I’m a playful, fun loving and hopeless romantic at heart, I’m also a serious corporate refugee who loves to think deeply, feel powerfully and connect with people authentically.
I help you discover your lost values, regain your passion for life and reignite your confidence.
I’ve struggled with those 3 things on my journey in both my work life, social life and my romantic relationships. Coaching changed my life so much that I’ve made it my mission to help you move from anxiety and uncertainty into an amazing world of clarity and confidence.
I currently live in Phuket, Thailand and love traveling the world meeting and working with men just like you. Let’s plan a long conversation as soon as you are ready. Grab a beer and kick back because we’re going be awhile.
Garrett Prettyman – Certified GG2GM Coach
My name is Garrett and I coach men who are trying to do it right, trying to make others happy, and who avoids conflict like the plague….Yet your wife is still shredding your heart and leaving you gutted.
I teach you how to create the loving, affectionate, passionate relationship you want without being a passive aggressive jerk who makes matters worse (I know that guy too).
I work alongside you and show you EXACTLY how to use the tools you’ve been reading about on the internet so you can have deeper love, mind-blowing sex, more connection, romance, and money.
Have you been the “nice man”, the “steady provider”, the “perfect catch” that she never appreciates? I used to be that man too.
I was married for 7 years and slammed my head into a wall everyday trying to figure this stuff out.
I learned she had a time bomb ticking and was slowly plotting her way into the arms of another… woman (I know, right!)
I lost my footing, lost my confidence and lost my grounding as a man.
It’s time to get grounded in your manhood.
How about learning…
- Being more confident in and out of the bedroom with your wife
- The six crucial steps to building more intimacy
- How to create more emotional safety and romantic connection
- How to be emotionally honest with her without defending yourself
It’s time to LOVE getting out of bed every day!
YOUR MISTAKES DON’T MATTER, WHAT MATTERS IS YOUR NEXT MOVE
How long will you wait to start receiving the benefits of having a man with experience in your corner to show you how to be the happy, confident, attractive man you want to be? An hour? 2 days? A month? A year? Once you decide, the NEXT step is to take ACTION.
If you are like me, you are the kind of man who not only likes to make progress, but you also like to do things for your family. You can do both of those things right now by signing your name to the new version of your life and the new version of your marriage I am offering you. Everything I’ve ever owned or acquired happened AFTER I signed my name to it
You sign your name by setting aside at least 60-90 minutes for us to really connect.
Charlie McKeever – Certified GG2GM Coach
Two days before Halloween my wife said, “I don’t want to be married anymore.” We had been married 21 years at that point and our 22nd anniversary was coming up that November.
We sat on a park bench in our neighborhood and I cried. I felt like my life was over. I felt like a failure as a husband, as a father, as a man. I wasn’t happy either, but I wasn’t ready to call it quits. I just didn’t know how to fix it.
“Fixing it” was what I had always done, but this wasn’t something I could fix and now she was saying out loud what I had feared for the last two years, if not longer.
Up to that point, I had been an anxious, fearful, frustrated, hyper nice guy, needy, sought outside validation, used sex as a marital benchmark for success, was burnt out professionally, had no friends, no hobbies, and I worked all the time.
Initially we didn’t know what to do. Should we continue living in an unhappy marriage? Should we separate? Should we just call it quits and get a divorce?
Two days after Christmas my wife said her feelings hadn’t changed, so I moved out that day into an unfurnished apartment.
I was 46 years old, had worked hard all my life, had tried to not make mistakes, had tried to make everyone happy, had put myself second, had done all the things I thought I was supposed to do, and still I was turning out the light in an empty two bedroom apartment, alone. I asked myself in the dark, how did I get here?
What happened next was a series of painful days and nights where I worked, engaged in outside social activities, talked with my men’s coach and tried hard to give her space and respect the spirit of the separation.
Getting text messages from her was gut wrenching. Each time she would send me a message I would spiral into a storm of thoughts and emotions. I would assign meaning to everything and analyze each word and emoji. What did that mean? Was she regretting her decision? Does she still love me?
I was a mess.
What came next was an incredible personal transformation fueled by three months of one-on-one men’s coaching with my mentor, reading a bunch of recommended relationship books, watching videos, reading articles, traveling, and having deep connected conversations with high value men.
Today, my marriage is strong. My wife and I just celebrated our 25th wedding anniversary. I have good friends and men’s community brothers all over the world, love photography, play the guitar, throw axes, enjoy hiking, spend time with my kids, do meaningful and fulfilling work and take time for myself.
My happiness is no longer affected by my wife’s moods and I no longer seek outside validation. I am calm, confident, and comfortable in my own skin for the first time in my life. My wife regularly tells me she loves me now on her own. She opens up and shares how she is feeling with me. We do things together and we both have friends, hobbies, and time to ourselves.
What I have learned on this journey is what I want to share with you, a man who is ready to listen and take the first step toward being the man you want to be and to live the life you want to live.
Robin Oetiker – Certified GG2GM Coach
Being Canadian meant being a “Nice Guy”. I used to believe that if I could make everyone else happy, then I would be happy too. Was I ever wrong!
The foundation of my life came crashing down close to four years ago when my wife courageously said the fateful words that brought my relationship to the ground. These paralyzing words left me scared, sad, lonely and lost.
I soon discovered that this foundation was built on quicksand and I was sinking. My crack was full of sand and soon my head would be full as well.
If you’re like I was, you’re probably thinking “How can this be happening to me when I gave her everything she wanted?”. I soon discovered that this way of thinking was the root cause of my problems.
Not wanting history to repeat itself, I removed the sand from my crack with the coaching of an amazing man and the GoodGuys2GreatMen community.
Now, after almost four years of personal growth and working with other men who fell into their own pits of quicksand, I now coach men and help them get the sand out of their cracks.
A few months ago, an amazing man sinking in quicksand grabbed a lifeline I threw him. He recently sent me an email stating: “I will always be grateful to you for entering my life when I sought help and guidance during the most difficult time of my life”.
I enjoy serving men through powerful conversations and knowing that after each conversation they become more empowered to live a fearless life full of happiness and abundance.
If you’re reading this and don’t know how to get started, it’s easy. Fill out an application in the Contact Tab of the GoodGuys2GreatMen website. After that, commit to a Free one-on-one conversation with myself, or any of the other coaches in our community.