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The 3 BEST Ways to END an Unhappy, Sexless Marriage

I’ve been thinking hard about how to give you some unhappy, sexless marriage advice. I know you wouldn’t be reading this if you didn’t have a deep desire to figure out what to do and where to go with the woman in your life. You may be a guy who says, “Our relationship is really pretty happy, except that we never have sex anymore.” Or you may say, “Sex with us isn’t really the problem as much as the negativity and constant arguing.” Or you may fall into the majority of guys for whom the relationship is both unhappy and severely lacking in any intimacy. In any case, it’s been … Continue reading →

Dude, Your Wife Sent Me a Letter…

Don’t ask me why she did this, I’ve never met her. I would guess she’s been hanging out on the internet and read something I wrote that got to her. It happens. After I read her letter, I began to understand why she is telling ME all of this instead of YOU – which is an obvious question. How did I know your email address? She ended up giving it to me when she signed you up for my newsletter without telling you. (she shouldn’t have done that) You can undo that by unsubscribing to the newsletter. So I’m forwarding this to you, brother. All I can say is that … Continue reading →

Heads, Married. Tails, Divorced. Call it in the air…

By: Steve Horsmon Knowing the fate of your marriage is a “coin flip” away. Seriously. Just find a coin and grab your wife and give it a toss. It’s a fun ice breaker for parties and a great conversation starter. Not serious – please don’t do that. A person can spend weeks, though, pouring over available statistics which can foretell the likely future of your marriage. For example: 41% of first marriages end in divorce 60% of second marriages end in divorce 73% of third marriages end in divorce The average marriage lasts 8 years The average age of a couple divorcing for the first time is 30 yrs. old … Continue reading →

No Intimacy and a Saddlebag of Excuses

By: Steve Horsmon How’s your intimate life going these days? Rate it on a scale of 1 to 10 with ten being a passionate and physical inferno of mutual trust and satisfaction. If you gave yourself a rating of 7 or less and you WANT to improve, the cause is probably in your “saddlebag of excuses”. Before you read on, remember, I said I’m assuming you actually WANT to improve. I’ll get to the saddlebag in a minute, but first, what exactly do I mean by “intimacy”? It’s different for men and women, but not that much. For men, important demonstrations of intimacy include the gamut of actions and emotions … Continue reading →