When you want more intimacy in your marriage but seem to the the only one who does, it can be a lonely experience. Complaining about it doesn’t help, so what can you do that works?
In our coaching we often talk about the power of brevity and the power of listening.
This is NOT about minimizing a woman’s complaints or her endless venting about her day. It’s NOT about how to dismiss people.
It’s about how to have better relationships with virtually everyone.
It’s about learning to RELAX with her. It’s about seeing her.
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It’s mostly about listening and accepting her without an anxious need to solve her problem, fix her anger or make her “get to the freakin’ point!”.
This isn’t easy if you’re nervous or insecure.
It’s impossible if you feel anger or resentment.
Watch this first. Laugh along with me. Then read on.
I know…you’re still grinning.
Use that feeling of humor and insight to actually change how you are being.
Here’s an example of how I use this secret power when coaching men.
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Try it for yourself.
I guarantee not only will others FEEL your warm, attentive energy…I guarantee YOU will feel better.
“I understand” is the simple choice to keep listening.
It’s the choice to keep present and connected.
It’s about your curiosity to actually know more. You can also say, ‘Tell me more.”
And it’s about your generous ability to let people talk about themselves and take yourself and your nervous energy out of the spotlight.
And that will feel amazing to both of you.
Try it for SEVEN DAYS with everyone you meet.
Then send us an email to tell us how it went.
How did it feel?
This is one of about 100 steps we teach men on their way to becoming “Mountain Lion” strong.
Cool, calm, confident. Heart beat around 40 bpm.
Unshakeable.
And unfuckwithable.
If you want to learn more about how to be comfortable, confident and peaceful in your own skin, I’d love to help show you the way. Here are 4 options for you to get started today:
Free: Fill out our contact form for your “Unrattled Masculine Mojo” consultation call – it’s a free, no strings, 90 minute deep dive personalized coaching session to help you identify what to focus on and what to avoid to get you moving toward the future you want. We offer a unique form of Men’s Coaching and we attract smart guys who see through surface level hype and “alpha” bravado. We help you be confident in you again.
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$69 Monthly Subscription: Join Dan and I in our Men’s Roundtable Group Coaching membership. We meet three times per month for live group coaching and we support you in a powerful group of men facing the same issues you are. It’s a $69 investment. You get INSTANT access to 5 years of recorded sessions! Try it for one month. What have you got to lose?
$397 One-Time Payment: How to Defuse the Divorce Bomb is a self-paced course with me, Tim Wade, and a community of men learning how to lead when you’ve just heard, “I love you but I’m not in love with you” or “I want to separate or divorce.”
As Teddy Roosevelt said:
“In any moment of decision, the best thing you can do is the right thing, the next best thing is the wrong thing, and the worst thing you can do is nothing.”
