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My Wife is a Feminist and Thinks Masculinity is Toxic

Toxic masculinity…toxic masculinity…toxic masculinity! Did you get that queasy knot in your stomach yet? Is the hair on the back of you neck tingling just a bit? Most good men have a physical reaction to the phrase…at least a wince of discomfort when they hear it. And then what do they do? Some of them waste another few hours of their day lurking around the internet getting themselves all spun up with anger and defensiveness. They will engage in emotionally charged arguments with other men and women trying say something brilliant or change someone’s mind. The problem with this approach is that it’s entirely INEFFECTIVE. Most of the discourse on … Continue reading →

A Woman’s Secret Power That Men Want More Than Sex

Many men will understand the under-utilized power of a woman’s little finger. Women’s jaws would drop if they could listen in on my conversations with married men. Our discussions contradict just about every misconception wives utter about their husbands. Husbands don’t want to hurt. They don’t want to argue. They don’t want to control. And they definitely don’t “just want sex”. These guys are desperate for her to know the truth. And they shed tears at the thought that their wife may never WANT to know the truth. The Power in Her Little Finger The truth for these men lies in the end of her little finger finger. In that … Continue reading →

When She Says ‘Be The Man’ Can You Ask Her to ‘Be The Woman’?

It’s a logical question. Can you ask her to “Woman Up”? It’s tough always being the man in your marriage. Guys often tell me they are asked to be the man by their wives who claim to need more of this and less of that. “Pay attention to my needs and do that man thing you do so I can feel what I need to feel!”. I wrote a recent article about it where I described what many women want when they say “I need you to be the man in our marriage.” Then comes an obvious question from a married guy. What the hell? Do I get to tell … Continue reading →

Are You a Woman Who Deserves a Great Man?

Since I spend so much time coaching men to improve themselves and their relationships, I invariably spend time talking with a lot of women as well. Many of my discussions with women revolve around questions pertaining to improvements they want to see in their men. For those who read my stuff and are familiar with my beliefs, you already know that I put tremendous responsibility on men to take charge of themselves and OWN many of the things that frustrate them and the women in their lives. I coach and teach men that they have a very special power in their masculinity to become a source of trust, emotional safety, and … Continue reading →