Providing support to men who want to rebuild attraction with their wife. Advice to help you be confident in yourself & create the relationship you really want.
A common question of the lonely husbands is “How can I rekindle her desire for me?” Spoiler alert: There’s a different question you should be asking first.
Knowing The Right Question
There’s a “chicken and the egg” situation I want to address right here…right now.
And this is crucial to HOW YOU THINK about getting what you want in life and relationships.
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How you think about everything is the only control you have and all you will ever need.
Why?
Because the moment you change the way you think about the things happening in your life…those very things will start changing in front of your eyes.
I’m in the business of helping men CHANGE THEIR PERSPECTIVE about what it means to be a man. I teach them HOW TO THINK differently.
What causes us to become needy, dependent and afraid in relationships?
What is the true source of confidence, clarity and well-being if it’s not in the warm, accepting arms of a woman?
I ask men to tell me what they MOST WANT in the next 6 months. What’s the most important question they need answered?
The #1 Most Popular Question I Get From Men.
“How can I get my wife/girlfriend to like me/love me/pay attention to me/give me affection/desire me/touch me/have sex with me again?”
And then I ask them what they see as their biggest barrier to getting what they want.
The 2nd Most Popular Question I Get From Men.
“How can I find the confidence/strength/self-esteem/courage to be the man I know I can be?”
You see the problem already, don’t you? (my readers are incredibly smart, intuitive people…I know this)
Those two questions need to be flip-flopped.
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There is no mystery about which comes first – confidence or attractiveness.
We must FOCUS on the real problem and make it our top priority.
Your sense of confidence/strength/self-esteem/courage precedes every positive thing you want to create.
And, obviously, if you have the OPPOSITE of those things…you will create nothing you want.
I talk about this more in this video.
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Rebuild Attraction With Confidence
Self-help is a popular route to gaining confidence. Sometimes it’s quite effective.
However, you can overdose on self-help when it becomes a search for INFORMATION…TIPS…HACKS…OR TRICKS.
There is NO QUICK FIX to learning true confidence. It takes conscious action and application to real-world situations.
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Consistency is key to learning a new habit and creating new patterns in your behavior.
When I wrote my book, Straight Talk Tools for the Desperate Husband, I purposely put in all kinds of examples of situations, dialog, conversations and case studies to help you TAKE ACTION.
I know it’s ACTION that will cause the shift you need in your thinking and your confidence. And when this happens, I get an email like this:
“I know this sounds maybe funny to some, but it is just so damn easy living with this sense of calm, knowing that it is just a movie, an exciting, thrilling virtual reality. If you want passion, it’s yours, if you want love, right there it is, if you want adventure, bang …you can have it. What is also really exciting is the realization that if you want pain, hate, guilt, sadness, loneliness, those too are simply choices that you can make to acquire those things.” (Matt – 2/2018)
Self-help CAN BE quite effective when you know how to turn the information into action.
Get the book by going HERE. The Kindle version is only $7.99. (available now in paperback too)
Another Way To Learn Confidence Quickly
Gaining confidence is MUCH easier with other high-quality men in your life who believe in you perhaps more than you believe in yourself at the moment.
I want to invite you to join some incredibly amazing men who have walked in your shoes – or are walking in them now.
The GG2GM Men’s Live Coaching Roundtable starting on is the perfect place for you to get the support, insight, encouragement and coaching you need.
Members of this tribe include me, my colleague Coach Dan Dore and our certified coaches who are there to help you find your feet again.
The membership is a monthly cost of $69 which you can cancel anytime you want.
When you become a member of this Roundtable, you will get:
- Membership into a private tribe of brothers who care about you
- Access to THREE LIVE COACHING CALLS EACH MONTH my colleague, Dan Dore and I and other GG2GM coaches.
- A password to a private web page with all the session recordings (past two years as well!), reading resources, personal challenge
- assignments and a running list of frequently asked questions with our written answers.
- Membership into an exclusive and secret Facebook community with just Roundtable members. More support is provided here.
- Exclusive access to our team of coaches who are available to talk with you privately when you need it.
Click THIS LINK and scroll to the bottom and sign up.
I promise you that this group of 300+ men will welcome you with open arms.
