So. There it is. The question that has been in your head for quite some time now. Maybe you’ve never said it out loud before or have seen it in writing. Maybe you’ve been secretly talking about it with your therapist, your mom, or your friends. Or…your lover. This question causes some of the most painful thinking and talking a person can imagine. There’s a really good reason for that. “What should I do about my marriage?” is a trick question. The question implies that the marriage is as detached from you as a leaky faucet or tired old car. Those things have gone bad on their own without … Continue reading →