What is the secret to creating a happier marriage and life? This is the fundamental problem that I see most men struggling with in their relationships at home, at work, with family and friends…everywhere!
If there’s one thing that I get asked over and over it’s this…
“I understand the concepts that you talk about in your videos and articles, but I just need practical tips to implementing it.”
So today I want to give you a glimpse into what it looks like to be the “Great Man” that we coach men to be.
When we first start talking to a man, he’s usually got a clear idea of what he DOESN’T want, and often he is reasonably clear on what he DOES want.
The piece that’s missing is the HOW.
How do I get there???
Whether it’s to do with your life purpose and mission, your relationship, your career or health issues, most guys know that they’ve reached a point of being unhappy that they’re no longer willing to accept.
How do I re-attract her?
How do I stop the downward spiral?
How do I have more sex?
How do I bring more connection and affection into my life?
How do I avoid divorce?
How do I save my marriage?
How do I stop giving a f*ck and create the future I REALLY want?
Maturity is when you stop complaining and making excuses, and start making changes
~ Roy T. Bennett, The Light in the Heart
The HOW of becoming a great man isn’t difficult to grasp…
Get clear on what you want and start heading toward that, making decisions every day that move you closer to those experiences.
The problem is, to be able to consistently make those decisions and take that action…you have to become a new man.
A man who is thoroughly enjoying his life whether she’s a part of it or not.
A man who knows his value in the relationship and calls out anything that questions it.
A man who clearly knows his standards for what he expects to experience in his life and who no longer accepts anything less.
A man who loves being himself.
A man who speaks his mind.
A man who trusts that he can and will create a life filled with deep conversations, laughter, love, connection, fulfilment, passion and lots and lots of sloppy, gooshy sex.
A man who has options and is enthusiastically looking forward to the opportunities in his future.
A man who is no longer afraid.
Every time you hold yourself to being this version of you, your internal voltage goes up, you start feeling the mojo we’re always talking about, you feel that sense of masculine confidence and self respect return.
It starts to become your natural state rather than an occasional experience.
When you do this work, you start asking POWERFUL questions of the people around you.
You don’t hold back.
You clearly communicate where you’re headed by the intention in your words and the conviction in your voice.
You challenge others to join you in a deeper way of living life.
You don’t wait. You lead the process.
Your clarity on WHO YOU ARE is the most important thing and that’s how it should always be.
You have to make that your number one priority and hold yourself to bringing that person to every situation.
You can only receive what you want when you know that you are worthy of receiving incredible love, affection, respect and adoration.
A powerful, magnetic man isn’t just being in control of your emotions and physicality, it’s openness and vulnerability, living what you think and feel unapologetically.
So my question for you is…
Do you take up the challenge to learn how to live a life filled with inspired action where you know exactly who you are and where you’re headed and every step is intentionally creating the experience you want?
I see the amazing changes this process has on men every day, in every area of their lives, not just their relationships.
In our coaching we take men through an intense program to become the man you were always meant to be. It’s a process of rediscovering your enthusiasm for life and it changes who you are as a man
Some ways for you to get back that old swagger and mojo are:
The Men’s Live Coaching Roundtable is a powerful collection of men from around the world working together to transform themselves and their relationships. Steve and I lead this community with 5 other professional coaches. We have live coaching video calls twice per month. The support and camaraderie in this group is something missing from the lives of too many men in the world.
We love teaching men these tools – how to be better, how to know who you are, own your power, know what you want and know how to CREATE it in your life through our Masculine Confidence coaching programs.
What if this next year everything changed for you?
That’s what we want for you.