Does Size Matter To Satisfy Your Wife?

Does size matter to satisfy your wife? Shana James and Dr Alexis Shepperd PHD, two very experienced intimacy coaches, give us their feminine perspective and explain what women really think about the size of your manhood.

Understanding the feminine experience of sex, romance and intimacy in marriage will help you feel more calm and confident.

We teach that you need MEN to show you how to be a MAN…but we also believe you need smart, mature, whole-hearted WOMEN to explain what it’s like to be a WOMAN. 

A Critical Part Of “Cracking The Feminine Code” Is Being Able To Empathize With The Sexual World Of A Woman…YOUR Woman.

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Does Size Matter To Satisfy Your Wife? – Alexis Shepperd and Shana James

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Does Size Matter? – Alexis Shepperd and Shana James

“When a man is connecting with me, present with me and penetrating me with his energy, size really doesn’t matter” ~ Shana James

Yep…we had to go there…this topic is ALWAYS high up on the list of men’s questions (and women’s conversations) although as you’ll see from the video, there’s much more to the answer than meets the eye :)

We men can be so clear and confident in our abilities to get shit done or fix the problem in other areas of life, but when it comes down to meeting the needs of another person, we can suddenly lose the belief in ourselves.

We put so much pressure on ourselves to perform sexually, and we’re always looking for some angle to make us feel more confident of our ability to give her pleasure.

Whether it’s social conditioning or something more primal, you feel more manly when you know that she enjoys being f*cked by you.

Maybe you’ve fallen into the trap of feeling ashamed when you came too quickly, or she made some comment about a previous sexual encounter and now you’re quietly thinking about this other guy in the back of your mind.

Our tendency to measure who we are as a man by our sexual prowess is the undoing of many potentially beautiful, intimate moments and memories.

Does Size Matter To Satisfy Her If She Says She Wants Better Sex?

Communication can penetrate a women deeper then your cock. Are you mainly quiet during sex? This is often a sign that you want her to think you know exactly what you’re doing. But a man who openly asks in the moment what she likes, and what feels good…that’s a man who’s more confident and evolved as a lover.

It shows that you’ve worked through some of your own insecurities and are more focused on being WITH her and ENJOYING the experience rather than performing to achieve an outcome or reach a goal.

And another important thing to remember is that her feedback is not criticism. She really wants you to hear what she likes and doesn’t like so you can lead her to more pleasure which will give you greater pleasure too!

We go deep into all these topics in our coaching for men.

Watch the video and leave a comment – we’d love to hear your feedback.

Reply to this email or fill in the Contact Form on the website to talk directly to Shana or Alexis.

“A man can take me to places I can’t go by myself”

I don’t think I can write a more interesting and enticing call to action than that line for most of us hot blooded, women loving, big hearted men.

So click here to visit the Cracking the Feminine Code section of the website.

We know you won’t find content as real as this which is created specifically to help men become great lovers of women, of sex and all things related to connection and intimacy.

Woman want deep, meaningful, connected and intimate sex just like men do.  I trust you learned something hearing Alexis and Shanna discuss the question “Does size matter to satisfy?”. Be a man who penetrates your wife with your presence. Get curious about how she feels and what she likes.  Take her to places she can’t take herself. Enjoy the journey.

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Dan Dore Certified Professional Men’s Coach
Dan Dore is a certified professional Men’s Coach specialising in helping men who are struggling and feeling unhappy and unfulfilled i their life and relationships. With over 20,000 hours experience coaching men to completely resolve their self-esteem and confidence issues and improve their ability to create emotional connection, build trust, earn respect, and lead the sexual intimacy and affection in their relationship whenever they want. No more fearing rejection or other people’s opinion of you - I want to help you finally be happy in yourself and trust your ability to create anything you want in your future.

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