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The 3 BEST Ways to END an Unhappy, Sexless Marriage

I’ve been thinking hard about how to give you some unhappy, sexless marriage advice. I know you wouldn’t be reading this if you didn’t have a deep desire to figure out what to do and where to go with the woman in your life. You may be a guy who says, “Our relationship is really pretty happy, except that we never have sex anymore.” Or you may say, “Sex with us isn’t really the problem as much as the negativity and constant arguing.” Or you may fall into the majority of guys for whom the relationship is both unhappy and severely lacking in any intimacy. In any case, it’s been … Continue reading →

The BIGGEST TURN OFF She Will Never Tell You

One of the most valuable pieces of information I can share with you about sexual attraction and sexual rejection is this. By the time sexual frustration and conflict enter into a relationship, there has been a long road of bad feelings AND bad behavior on both sides. Your wife or girlfriend is CRYSTAL CLEAR about the negative energy you BOTH have generated. While she is feeling bad and emotionally mistreated, she is also keenly aware of how badly she has been treating you. In this reality, it is impossible for her to feel sexually attracted to you. Do you feel the same? Probably not. In fact, most men believe that … Continue reading →

Husbands, Horses, and Empathy for Your Wife

In my work with married men struggling with their relationship, I’ll use ANY tool I need to make a break-through. Sometimes my background in training horses comes in handy to create “Ah-ha” moments for my frustrated clients. This article will help you understand that there is another language you must learn to be able to empathize with your wife. Understanding how horses think and feel while trying to communicate with them is not an easy task. That’s why horses are so commonly used to teach trust, leadership, respect, and empathy in dozens of ways. Just search on “Horse Therapy” to find out how traumatized and disabled people, disadvantaged kids, and … Continue reading →

More Intimacy: A Man’s Sexual Epiphany

By: Steve Horsmon A friend excitedly told me today that he had an epiphany over the weekend…but he thought that was probably just her stage name. Sorry. That one has always cracked me up! What’s an epiphany anyway? It’s a sudden realization. It’s a spontaneous understanding. It’s a BFO – A Blinding Flash of the Obvious! So when a man has a sexual epiphany, he has finally pieced together the puzzle that reveals the truth about his path to passion – to more intimacy. The truth about his path to passion?? I know…sounds a little much but bear with me for a minute Since before we were born, we men … Continue reading →

The Great Testicular Heist!

By: Steve Horsmon The thing I like about sensational titles like “The Great Testicular Heist” is that they tend to make you open the book. So….gotcha. I don’t think you’ll be disappointed. The fallacy in my title is that it implies somebody’s balls were actually stolen. What really happened is that THOUSANDS of men simply left their balls unattended, laying around the house like spare change, or otherwise unsecured. Yes, the alleged “thieves” are their wives. But that’s like calling a man a thief for using his neighbor’s garden hose to extinguish his neighbor’s burning house – with the neighbor standing right there. If he wasn’t going to use the … Continue reading →

A Man’s Job: Creating Emotional Safety!

By: Steve Horsmon This article reveals one of the secrets in my report, “5 Secrets of an Unhappy Wife”. This secret is she expects you to know what emotional safety means to her. It is so important for a man to understand this and WHY it is HIS JOB to create it. If he is trying to improve or save his marriage and intimate life, he must embrace this reality and own it! Emotional safety is important to both men and women. Without it, we feel unsure about opening up and sharing sensitive emotions and thoughts with each other. Fear of being judged, criticized, or ignored will shut down any … Continue reading →

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