Hey brother,
I often say that one of the biggest factors leading to divorce is a man’s FEAR of divorce.
Why?
Because when we’re scared of anything we tend to screw things up.
The 3-Step Emergency Triage for You AND Your Marriage >>
With the exception of your life saving instincts on the freeway or when threatened with physical harm, operating from fear usually has a bad outcome.
When it comes to the gut wrenching, anxiety ridden fears of losing your relationship, family and wealth…operating from fear is the worst thing you can do.
I know this first hand.
When it happened to me I went into extreme reaction mode. Pleading, begging, endless talking, demanding, interrogating and bargaining were some of the fearful (and wildly ineffective) things I tried.
Fear was making me crazy and making everything worse.
If you’re a guy who suspects he may be on the road to separation or divorce this video is for you.
Even if you’re just getting the icy cold shoulder, distancing, dismissiveness or disrespect…you need to know how to handle yourself.
Free Guide: Where You Should Focus To Grow Your Masculinity >>
Watch this first.
The Truth About Your Fear of Divorce
The truth is that behind the scary curtain of divorce…things aren’t as terrifying as they seem.
There’s no questioning the incredibly crappy prospect of losing the family unit, full time with your kids, your wife and about half your wealth.
It does suck and it’s not the least bit fun.
But…feeling gripped with fear, resentment, anger and sadness will ruin any chance you have at improving things. Those feelings will make you think, say and do a variety of stupid things that will only make matters worse. (hey, I’m an expert on that)
And if you can’t find your way to a calmer, more confident frame of mind now, a post divorce life won’t look very good either…guaranteed.
If you’re like most men I work with the current version of your marriage isn’t serving you all that well.
The lack of closeness, connection, passion, respect, trust and intimacy of any kind have reached record levels.
Saving this marriage as it is doesn’t sound so great.
You need to start looking at this as an opportunity for improvement rather than a death sentence.
With a clearer, stronger and more confident mindset, you will start to see that your life is about to get better – much better – one way or another.
And with this mindset you will relax and start thinking, doing and saying the things that reflect your true values and the life you really want to create.
Do you want to feel more relaxed and confident?
Who doesn’t?
Below are some options for you to get started right away…
Free: If you’re serious about building your masculine mojo then apply for a coaching call with us we will help you identify what to focus on and what to avoid to get you feeling confident again.
What do I mean by “SERIOUS”?
- We take YOU and your struggles seriously…because we’ve been there
- We know living in a sexless marriage is serious…and so is showing your kids what a healthy affectionate relationship looks like
- A lack of intimacy of all kinds is serious now and for the long term health of your marriage
- We believe your personal emotional strength and well-being is serious
- We seriously show up 110% to our conversations with you and expect you to be as serious as we are about changing your life
Free Guide: Where You Should Focus To Grow Your Masculinity
$69 Monthly Subscription: Join Dan and I in our Men’s Roundtable Group Coaching membership. We meet three times per month for live group coaching and we support you in a powerful group of men facing the same issues you are. Get instant access to 5 years of recorded sessions. Try it for one month. What have you got to lose?
$397 One-Time Payment: How to Defuse the Divorce Bomb is a self-paced course with me, Tim Wade, and a community of men learning how to lead when you’ve just heard, “I love you but I’m not in love with you” or “I want to separate or divorce.”
As Teddy Roosevelt said:
“In any moment of decision, the best thing you can do is the right thing, the next best thing is the wrong thing, and the worst thing you can do is nothing.”
