Does your wife or girlfriend sometimes act like she would rather be anywhere on this planet but with you? Does this get under your skin and make you boiling mad? Do you feel hurt, unappreciated and ignored? Let’s talk about how men, women (and horses, of course) feel the PRESSURE to get away. Let’s talk about how we can reduce the pressure and create an environment where softness, relaxation and closer INTIMACY is possible. Watch or listen to this video to find out WHAT we do to cause this and what it looks and sounds like. Then below I’ll talk about WHY we do this and how change things up. … Continue reading →

I’ll just say it and get it over with. Women can be a lot like horses. It sounds innocent enough but I’ve gotten a lot of crap over comparing women to animals. It’s a metaphor, for Pete’s sake. (actually it’s a simile for you grammar freaks) A woman once told me, “You guys are like dogs. A kind word, a good meal and rub on the belly every now and then and you’re good to go. Simple bastards!” Hell yes, sister! Now you’ve got it. Most of us can go without food or water for week with just one “You’re such a good boy!” show of appreciation. So, I don’t … Continue reading →