Hey brother,
Some things are just not as complicated as we make them.
Like relationships, for example.
One kind of guy has consistently shitty experiences in his relationships.
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And another kind of guy has consistently pleasant experiences in his relationships.
Which one do you want to be today?
The reason we get shitty days and shitty relationships is mostly…and SIMPLY…because of our shitty thinking.
Shitty thinking makes us anxious, angry, short-tempered, agitated, annoyed, disappointed and judgmental as f*ck. (Guy #1)
Kind thinking makes us relax, happier, patient, present, curious, supportive and generous. (Guy #2)
Shitty thinking is normally plagued by continuous over-thinking, analysis and interrogation. It complicates every single little event and projects shitty meaning on to everything and everyone.
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Today, I’m urging you (and me, honestly) to simply stop. Knock it off. Stop TRYING SO DAMN HARD to get people or things to go your way.
Just be nice. Seriously. Just that.
Here’s my nice, short video for you on the topic of being nice.
I like the advice Audrey Hepburn gave once about improving your looks.
“For attractive lips, speak words of kindness.”
—Audrey Hepburn
So simple, isn’t it?
You will never be more attractive, more magnetic and more happy with yourself than when you move through the day with kindness.
- Try thinking kinder thoughts.
- Make kinder assumptions about others.
- Make up kinder stories about what things mean.
- Try saying simple, kind things to people you don’t even know.
- Same thing again for people you DO know.
- Be kinder to yourself…eat better, exercise better and sleep better.
- And kids. If you have them. Play with your kids.
- And dogs. If you have them. Pet your dogs.
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As Teddy Roosevelt said:
“In any moment of decision, the best thing you can do is the right thing, the next best thing is the wrong thing, and the worst thing you can do is nothing.”
