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My Wife Just Said She’s Not Happy in Our Marriage – Help!

The #1 affliction most men have at the very start of marriage trouble is…. Anxiety (noun: A feeling of worry, nervousness, or unease, typically about an imminent event or something with an uncertain outcome.) Does that sound about right? Almost overnight we can go from “happy go lucky” to “holy crap my life is falling apart!” And because we’re “fixers”, we immediately look for something to fix it. But the problem is we always begin the search outside of our own head. And that’s the LAST place most people want to look. I won’t pretend to be an expert on anxiety and it’s cousin – depression. There are about 3,102 … Continue reading →

Why is My Wife so Cold and Distant?

I’ll just say it and get it over with. Women can be a lot like horses. It sounds innocent enough but I’ve gotten a lot of crap over comparing women to animals. It’s a metaphor, for Pete’s sake. (actually it’s a simile for you grammar freaks) A woman once told me, “You guys are like dogs. A kind word, a good meal and rub on the belly every now and then and you’re good to go. Simple bastards!” Hell yes, sister! Now you’ve got it. Most of us can go without food or water for week with just one “You’re such a good boy!” show of appreciation. So, I don’t … Continue reading →

Unhappy Marriage, Is this Why Your Wife is Not Attracted to You?

Has your woman ever complained about you being undependable or wishy-washy? Do you ever feel like you’re stuck and just can’t follow through on things? Do you ever feel like other men are more confident than you and get more done? I want to talk about being a WISHY-WASHY MAN. They are more common than you think. I was one – and still am sometimes. The key traits of a wishy-washy man are: He is slow to answer questions and says, “I don’t know” a LOT He feels sluggish in his mind and body and regrets not following though on things he wants He finds himself DEFENDING himself when pressured … Continue reading →