How To Stop Being Upset By Your Wife

My hope for this message is to challenge and empower you to think differently about feeling offended, insulted, manipulated, controlled or abused.

The internet abounds with countless experts trying to help people know when they are being abused and how to escape their evil perpetrators.  These experts arm them with tips, tools and vocabulary to identify their manipulative, controlling, domineering and narcissistic abusers.

“Abuse” is the new relationship battle cry and public enemy #1.

It’s creating armies of otherwise healthy men and women who spend a LOT of time and energy indicting their persecutors.  Then they spend MORE time and energy complaining about it and trying to get others to sympathize with them.

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It becomes a full time job for these default victims.

They are not aware of any other course of thinking or action that can create a different result.  Therefore, they spend no time thinking or doing anything that can be more empowering and effective.

The ultimate problem is this way of living has no end. 

Brother, I want more for you.  You’re not a rat.  And you’re not a victim.

There is a more effective way to THINK about all this and a more productive way to RESPOND.

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I explain more in this video.

Let me be clear.

I am speaking directly to healthy adult men who want to become more emotionally confident, mature and effective in their life by changing how they think and respond to their circumstances.  These men have a clear choice to create new circumstances for themselves.

I fully realize there are many innocent victims of circumstances and abuse who have no such option and we must support and defend them.

Instead of seeing criticism and cutting comments as abuse…he sees them as insecure bids for connection.

Instead of experiencing her cold silence as emotional abandonment…he experiences empathy for her internal turmoil.

Instead of feeling threats of divorce as vicious emotional abuse…he sees right through her fearful need to take control.

Instead of launching boyish counter-attacks, he consistently demonstrates calm, confident and mature responses.

Instead of pursuing and pressuring her for approval and validation, he confidently gives her space while happily engaging with others.

Instead of accepting poisonous attacks or destructive behavior, he firmly and confidently states his expectations and invokes consequences without fear of the outcome.

How does he achieve this Zen-like state of masculine maturity?

He stops trying to change others and puts laser focus on changing himself.  This is all the control he has and all the control he needs.

Free: If you’re serious about building your masculine mojo then apply for a coaching call with us we will help you identify what to focus on and what to avoid to get you feeling confident again. 

What do I mean by “SERIOUS”?

  • We take YOU and your struggles seriously…because we’ve been there
  • We know living in a sexless marriage is serious…and so is showing your kids what a healthy affectionate relationship looks like
  • A lack of intimacy of all kinds is serious now and for the long term health of your marriage
  • We believe your personal emotional strength and well-being is serious
  • We seriously show up 110% to our conversations with you and expect you to be as serious as we are about changing your life

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As Teddy Roosevelt said: 

“In any moment of decision, the best thing you can do is the right thing, the next best thing is the wrong thing, and the worst thing you can do is nothing.” 

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Dan Dore Certified Professional Men’s Coach
Dan Dore has been a professional Men’s Coach specialising in helping men who are lacking confidence, unhappy and unfulfilled in their life and relationships. Dan has 10 years experience coaching men to improve their self-confidence issues and improve their ability to create more emotional connection, more trust, more respect, and to learn how to lead the sexual intimacy and affection in their relationship whenever they want. If you're tired of dealing with rejection and criticism, Dan will help you challenge the current status, stand up for what you want to change and finally be happy in yourself and your ability to create the kind of connection and passionate life that you really want.
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