How To Teach Your Wife How You Want To Be Treated

Have you ever heard this quote?

You Teach People How to Treat You

It’s been around since the first caveman got knocked in the head with a club.

He had to figure out how to keep THAT from happening again.

And the idea of “boundaries” was born.

But why do we still suck at defining and enforcing boundaries?

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Why do we still complain about “how we’re being treated”?

Simple.  We’ve been brainwashed to avoid conflict and to be overly cooperative.

We’ve been TRAINED by our recent “nice guy” (and “nice gal”) ancestors to tolerate bad behavior…to just get along and not rock the boat.

Well, I think that’s a recipe for a crappy life and miserable relationships.

In this video I tell the story of a client who took 1 YEAR to teach his wife to stop criticizing and verbally insulting him in front of the kids.

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That’s another good quote and an important point when it comes to setting boundaries.

We can’t just go around declaring our boundaries and “teaching people how to treat us” if we’re total dicks.

You’re in no position to teach anyone anything until you’ve learned the lessons yourself

In the case of the criticizing wife, if you have been frustrated, argumentative and negative toward her behavior you’re in no condition to start setting boundaries.

You’ll need to slow down and reset yourself while gently bringing up the values you want for BOTH of you to start sharing.

The man in the video story figured this out early on and he stayed patient, clear and proud of how he handled himself.  That was the only reason his wife eventually changed her critical behavior toward him. 

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Dan Dore Certified Professional Men’s Coach
Dan Dore has been a professional Men’s Coach specialising in helping men who are lacking confidence, unhappy and unfulfilled in their life and relationships. Dan has 10 years experience coaching men to improve their self-confidence issues and improve their ability to create more emotional connection, more trust, more respect, and to learn how to lead the sexual intimacy and affection in their relationship whenever they want. If you're tired of dealing with rejection and criticism, Dan will help you challenge the current status, stand up for what you want to change and finally be happy in yourself and your ability to create the kind of connection and passionate life that you really want.
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