Struggling With Anxiety About Your Marriage?

Hey brother,

The #1 affliction men have when they first realise that their marriage is in trouble is….

Does that sound about right?

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Almost overnight we can go from “happy go lucky” to “holy crap my life is falling apart!”

And because we’re “fixers”, we immediately look for something to fix it. But the problem is we always begin the search outside of our own head. And that’s the LAST place most people want to look.

I won’t pretend to be an expert on anxiety and it’s cousin – depression. There are about 3,102 books written about it. It’s best to be brutally honest about anxiety.

So that’s what I’m going to do here.

After coaching 1000’s of men I’ve learned a very small percentage have the type of anxiety requiring medical attention. In other words, there’s not a chemical imbalance – there’s a THINKING imbalance.

And when it comes to the acute type of “marriage anxiety” I see in men who discover she’s “not happy” or “loves him but isn’t IN LOVE with him”, the problem is often he simply has pigeon-holed his THINKING.

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Those are important roles.  But when they become his ONLY source of well-being, confidence, validation and worthiness…he’s pretty much screwed.

I talk about the importance of having a mission and its relationship to male anxiety in this snowy video.

One of my favorite reassurances for anxious men is, “You’re not only going to be okay…you’re already okay but you can’t see it right now.”

Circumstances are just, well, circumstances. WE get to decided what meaning to give them and how we will respond to them.

And when we’ve been living our life in the microcosm of husband/father/provider everything looks scary. We don’t have a larger concept of our life – our purpose – our mission.

Living small makes change look terrifying. And living out of integrity with your authentic self and your core value leads to dark places.

Something that allows you to express your deepest passions and zone of genius keeps you authentic. Feeling “lit up” is the experience of being totally aligned with your non-negotiable values and terms for living the life YOU want.

But don’t worry about “finding” it immediately.

What if you simply made your current MISSION a dedicated process of finding your mission?

That’s probably a really great start for most of us.

And for many of the men in my community, that’s exactly what they’re doing. I’ve noticed that for each man new doors are opening. New ideas. New opportunities.

They are calmer, happier, more confident, more connected and unapologetically honest and vulnerable.

That’s exactly what a mission can do for you.

I created this community as part of my mission and love to share with anyone who wants to play.

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What do I mean by “SERIOUS”?

  • We take YOU and your struggles seriously…because we’ve been there
  • We know living in a sexless marriage is serious…and so is showing your kids what a healthy affectionate relationship looks like
  • A lack of intimacy of all kinds is serious now and for the long term health of your marriage
  • We believe your personal emotional strength and well-being is serious
  • We seriously show up 110% to our conversations with you and expect you to be as serious as we are about changing your life

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As Teddy Roosevelt said:

“In any moment of decision, the best thing you can do is the right thing, the next best thing is the wrong thing, and the worst thing you can do is nothing.”

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Dan Dore Certified Professional Men’s Coach
Dan Dore has been a professional Men’s Coach specialising in helping men who are lacking confidence, unhappy and unfulfilled in their life and relationships. Dan has 10 years experience coaching men to improve their self-confidence issues and improve their ability to create more emotional connection, more trust, more respect, and to learn how to lead the sexual intimacy and affection in their relationship whenever they want. If you're tired of dealing with rejection and criticism, Dan will help you challenge the current status, stand up for what you want to change and finally be happy in yourself and your ability to create the kind of connection and passionate life that you really want.
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