The Reason Intimacy Fades In Marriage

Hey brother,

I’m going to get right to the point.

If the intimacy in your marriage is lower than you’d like or non-existent, there’s a fundamental aspect of your relationship that is currently broken and that aspect is TRUST.

She may have said to you “I don’t trust you anymore!”, or she may not have, but I can guarantee that it’s a huge part of what’s going wrong between you.

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So what does it mean?

If there is a lack of trust in your marriage, you’ve only got TWO options.

Whether she’s saying it or just thinking it to herself, your “lioness” is currently believing things like this:

  • I don’t trust you really care about me.
  • I don’t trust you to be present.
  • I don’t trust you to accept me for who I am.
  • I don’t trust you to have my back.
  • I don’t trust you to not hurt me again!

…you’ve got some thinking to do and some work to do.

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But the work is simple if you can get your self-respect back.  

It’s easy when you feel more confident in yourself and you’re clear about what standards you expect of yourself. It’s effortless when you stop making things a competition for who’s right or wrong.

When you’re the LION, you see a MUCH BIGGER PICTURE of what is actually happening.

And from there, you’re not scared of her anymore. You know exactly what she needs and what you will do to help. THIS guy is TRUSTWORTY because:

That last one seals the deal.  When you can find your own lane of confident, calm, consistent, patient masculine energy, everything changes.  I explain it more in this video.

The best and fastest way to rebuild trust with your wife is to become trustworthy.

There is no shortcut. And there is no faking it.

The work we do with men totally rewires their thinking and their emotional strength to become the LION in their life and relationship.

When men tell me, “I want to become a better husband…a better father…a better MAN!”, I ask them, “What’s getting in your way?”

The answers are usually the same.

I don’t want you to TRY anything.

I want you to DO something you’ve never done before.

I want you to ask for help.

I had to ask for help. It’s not easy, I get it.

How about I offer you a menu of options you have to ask for help. I want to see you take charge.

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What do I mean by “SERIOUS”?

  • We take YOU and your struggles seriously…because we’ve been there
  • We know living in a sexless marriage is serious…and so is showing your kids what a healthy affectionate relationship looks like
  • A lack of intimacy of all kinds is serious now and for the long term health of your marriage
  • We believe your personal emotional strength and well-being is serious
  • We seriously show up 110% to our conversations with you and expect you to be as serious as we are about changing your life

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As Teddy Roosevelt said:

“In any moment of decision, the best thing you can do is the right thing, the next best thing is the wrong thing, and the worst thing you can do is nothing.”

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Dan Dore Certified Professional Men’s Coach
Dan Dore has been a professional Men’s Coach specialising in helping men who are lacking confidence, unhappy and unfulfilled in their life and relationships. Dan has 10 years experience coaching men to improve their self-confidence issues and improve their ability to create more emotional connection, more trust, more respect, and to learn how to lead the sexual intimacy and affection in their relationship whenever they want. If you're tired of dealing with rejection and criticism, Dan will help you challenge the current status, stand up for what you want to change and finally be happy in yourself and your ability to create the kind of connection and passionate life that you really want.
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