Hey brother,
Has your wife told you she’s no longer attracted to you?
Or has she complained about you being needy, whiny, unreliable or undecisive?
Do you ever convince yourself not to initiate intimacy because the fear of being rejected again is just too painful?
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Do you ever feel like other men are more confident than you and get more sex?
I want to talk about being a WISHY-WASHY MAN.
They are more common than you think. I was one – and still am sometimes.
First, what does “wishy-washy” mean? Here are some of the words the dictionary uses to describe this trait:
Watery
Weak
Watered down
Thin
Tasteless
Flavorless
Feeble
Ineffectual
Spineless
Limp
Limp-wristed
Namby-pamby
Halfhearted
Spiritless
Indecisive
Wet
Pathetic
Weak-willed
Pale
Half-assed
In practical, every-day terms, the key traits of a wishy-washy man are:
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- He is slow to answer questions and says “I don’t know” a LOT
- He feels sluggish in his mind and body and regrets not following through on things he wants
- He finds himself DEFENDING himself when pressured by others
- He doesn’t really have a f&*$ing opinion about anything
- He stews quietly in anger about his circumstances – mostly mad at himself
Any of those sound familiar?
A wishy-washy man is uninspiring to himself.
He has a lot of negative self-talk and beats himself up a lot.
He isn’t happy because he can HEAR HIMSELF speak and he doesn’t like what he hears.
Often, he knows his wife wants more from him. More leadership, more decisiveness and more confidence.
And it pisses him off that he just can’t seem to follow through.
In this video I give you more insight and offer you the first steps you can take to fix this.
This is a little “tough love” brother.
I can’t tell you how grateful I am to have men in my life who will challenge my excuses, my justifications and my fears.
They will call me on my bullshit when they see that my thinking is screwed up. And they do it with love and with my best interest in mind.
That’s why I’m bringing it up in this email for you. Maybe you don’t have anyone to challenge you to step up and out of your sluggishness.
Sometimes just having a mirror held up to your face makes a man flip a switch and start making changes immediately.
It’s absolutely amazing how fast a man can turnaround his sense of confidence, clarity, focus and happiness when he decides he is going to OWN his thoughts and his actions.
One of the biggest challenges for the wives and girlfriends of my clients is believing how fast a mental shift is made in their man. They want to believe it, but they don’t trust it. (as in, why couldn’t you do this years ago?!)
But, it is real. And it’s permanent.
It’s an immediate switch from wishy-washy to confident, clear and accountable. It’s almost too good to be true.
This is what we promise when you join one of our coaching programs.
Promise? Really? How can we promise that?
Because it’s actually a VERY SMALL shift in your perspective that’s needed to cause an exponential shift in your results.
When you change your core THOUGHTS, you will change your core EMOTIONS, which will change your ACTIONS.
It’s that simple.
These aren’t chest thumping, war painting, Kumbuya coaching programs. I would suck at running those kinds of programs.
Our coaching is for everyday men who are ready to show up powerfully to support each other in the process of becoming confident men who create the life they want.
They don’t settle and they don’t hide. They create.
What about you?
Do you want in?
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What do I mean by “SERIOUS”?
- We take YOU and your struggles seriously…because we’ve been there
- We know living in a sexless marriage is serious…and so is showing your kids what a healthy affectionate relationship looks like
- A lack of intimacy of all kinds is serious now and for the long term health of your marriage
- We believe your personal emotional strength and well-being is serious
- We seriously show up 110% to our conversations with you and expect you to be as serious as we are about changing your life
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As Teddy Roosevelt said:
“In any moment of decision, the best thing you can do is the right thing, the next best thing is the wrong thing, and the worst thing you can do is nothing.”
