Feeling trapped in an unhappy marriage can take over every area of your life if you let it, but it doesn’t have to be that way, there is a way to respond to this situation that makes you stop feeling trapped and start to feel your confidence and masculinity return again.
How To Know Why You’re Feeling Trapped In An Unhappy Marriage
Take this quick test to find out. If you say YES to one or more of these, you are in the land of Limbo.
- I feel like I have NO idea what she is thinking about me or us.
- I feel like I’m just waiting for another shoe to drop and then she’s outta here.
- I feel I can’t say or do anything whatsoever to break through her ice cold wall.
- I feel like she’s a zombie and can’t even answer a simple damn question.
- I feel like I’m stuck in neutral revving my motor but we’re going nowhere.
- I feel terrified by the blank divorce papers she’s kept in her nightstand for 3 months now!
How did you do?
If you’re like virtually every man who comes into our GG2GM community, you scored nearly 100% on that test.
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Congrats!
Seriously, I know how horrible the feeling of limbo can be. It’s chronic, daily uncertainty.
It’s a dark cloud of fear of the unknown.
The sadness that grips your heart when you think of the rejection, abandonment, disrespect and dismissiveness is overwhelming.
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And the feelings that come from those thoughts create a perfect pair of concrete shoes that have you stuck in place with no foreseeable way out.
Before I tell you another way to think about this, see if this straight-talking barn video answers any questions.
How to Quickly Escape Your Marriage Limbo
Notice that all the test questions start with “I FEEL”. That’s on purpose.
I want you to learn how stinking powerful your feelings are and why they have you fooled into thinking you’re in Limbo Land.
Those feelings seem non-negotiable and unfixable.
Those feelings will make you actually believe you are stuck…victimized…hopelessly at her mercy.
You shouldn’t believe everything you feel.
And you shouldn’t trust every thought that comes through your head.
How To Get Out Of The Trap
We teach men about the concept of AGENCY.
AGENCY is the capacity, condition, or state of acting or of exerting power
Simply put…and don’t get mad at this…
Your current state of “limbo” is your choice.
And I want to help you understand you have better choices at this very moment.
While there are inescapable facts and circumstances about your wife’s behavior and actions, these do NOT mean you are in limbo!
We teach men every day about the power of changing the meaning you give those facts and circumstances.
We teach you how to get back in your own lane and feel more in control of your responses, your thinking and your emotions.
This is what QUICKLY helps you see that “limbo” is only true when you have zero power to change and zero power to take personal action. (that’s agency, brother)
The video above gave you a few examples, but there is so much more to learn. So much more to talk about.
With just a few tweaks to your thinking and a few bold decisions you will instantly exit Limbo Land. Forever.
And you’ll find out it never really existed in the first place.
Of course, this might sound nearly impossible to you right now.
I’ve learned that it IS impossible without other high-quality men in your life to believe you perhaps more than you believe in yourself at the moment.
Question: Your wife’s commitment uncertain or your own lane uncertain? Men who gain clarity through our mentorship know EXACTLY the values they act from. They respond with clear choices when faced with uncertainty or chaos.
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Support For When It Feels Too Difficult
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