How To Increase Sexual Intimacy And Closeness With A Woman

Many times, there’s only ONE thing preventing sexual intimacy and closeness with your wife and that’s negative PRESSURE. Interestingly, women do respond well to positive pressure. I’m going to show you how to replace negative pressure with positive pressure in your marriage.

Are you in a relationship with a woman who is distant, closed off and always criticizing you?

Is she quick to get defensive and blame you for making her feel bad?

Does she complain that you’re always criticizing her?

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I speak to men every day in this situation and I understand it like no therapist or counselor ever will because I’ve lived it too. All our coaches have.

It took me a long time – many years – to finally understand why this was happening.

When we’re coaching men in this kind of situation we often use analogies and as you know, one we use a lot is that of women and horses.

There’s a reason why many women are drawn to horses. They speak a similar language and they get each other.

They also have similar tendencies to seek safety and to react to the slightest negative pressure

Horses hate pressure, and they’re so sensitive to the slightest changes. That’s why it’s such a great analogy when we teach men about what pressure is to women in romantic, sexual relationships.

Just as with horses, pressure is felt by your woman in a million different ways. From the way you look at her, the way you talk to her, the way you walk toward her, even the way you open or close a door.

Women are so sensitive that they can sense when your mood changes (often even before you have) which can make her become agitated, defensive and back away.

From a young age, women are taught to detect pressure, to detect dangerous men, to detect anything that isn’t safe.

She feels pressure by the way we frown, the way we complain, by the way we breathe, by the way we hold ourselves in front of her.

She feels pressure by the way we feel about ourselves which is the opposite of intimacy and closeness

Women can feel negative pressure or threatening pressure by the way we disagree or argue.

But the good news is that they can also sense pressure in a positive way too.

This is one thing we talk a lot about in our coaching programs.

Some positive pressures that she can feel from you are:

  • Your positive confidence
  • Your ability to lead your emotions in a positive way
  • The positivity of the environment that you create when she’s in your presence

She loves that kind of pressure.

It’s a leading kind of pressure as opposed to a negative kind of controlling pressure.

In our coaching, we explain how to know when you are creating negative pressure that threatens, intimidates, pushes away or repels her.

And we explain how you create a positive pressure that is felt as a positive tension.

Positive tension can be positive emotional tension or positive sexual tension.

We teach you to know the difference between negative tension and positive tension.

We teach you to create positive and stop creating the negative.

We explain how you have an amazing untapped superpower.

It’s the power to create a new relationship by simply changing who you’re being.

No more waiting for her to make the changes you want to happen.

If you want more connection – you must become more connected.

If you want more respect – you must become more respectable.

If you want more openness – you must become fearlessly vulnerable.

If you want more affection and sex – you must become unapologetically affectionate and sexual.

A client told me last week that he turned down sex!

Sounds unbelievable I know, but it’s true.

He chose to learn how to LEAD.

He learned how to create a new environment and now he goes through each day with a big grin on his face. His business is booming, his friendships are stronger and his sex life is incredible.

It’s a true story. And it’s repeatable. We see it every day.

When you stop reacting to others and learn how to confidently lead…everything in your life gets better.

This is what we love to do with men.

Pressure affects intimacy and closeness with your wife. Create positive pressure with calm, confident, peaceful feelings about yourself. Achieve this by seeing the TRUTH about your masculine power and your ability to create the life you dream of.

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Dan Dore Certified Professional Men’s Coach
Dan Dore is a certified professional Men’s Coach specialising in helping men who are struggling and feeling unhappy and unfulfilled i their life and relationships. With over 20,000 hours experience coaching men to completely resolve their self-esteem and confidence issues and improve their ability to create emotional connection, build trust, earn respect, and lead the sexual intimacy and affection in their relationship whenever they want. No more fearing rejection or other people’s opinion of you - I want to help you finally be happy in yourself and trust your ability to create anything you want in your future.

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