I won’t beat around the bush. I haven’t been completely honest with you.
I’ll get right to it. Here are some of the little white lies I’ve been telling you:
I can tell you how to save your marriage
I can teach you how to get more sex – as much as you want
I can help you make your wife happy
I can show you how to make your woman want you again
Those words are exactly what I was Googling years ago when I was in your shoes.
It’s called “Search Engine Optimization”. It’s exactly how my early coaches and mentors got me to click on their information. They baited me with key words and teaser tidbits that tickled my pain points and promised me what I thought I wanted. I remember one of the phrases I clicked on what “Nymphomanic Wife”.
Yeah. It worked.
I was Googling for what I thought I wanted and – along the way – I discovered what I really needed.
It was that frantic, frustrated Googling that started my journey and likely how you wound up here too.
The truth is that while you may think you want to save your marriage, get more sex or make your wife happy…that’s NOT what you need.
A happy, healthy, intimate and sexual relationship isn’t a requirement to start with…it’s a RESULT.
It’s a result of BEING a healthy, happy and passionate man.
I go into greater detail in this video about what this change in thinking is all about.
The reason I pick those key words and phrases is because they are the thoughts already in your head. They are the words that get your attention and they are the words that worked on me.
The only reality I knew was that my sense of well-being, security and happiness was outside of me – in someone else’s hands. I believed my only option was to learn how to control or manipulate those outside circumstances.
It turns out that was total BS and a total waste of time. I would never get what I wanted by trying to change my outside circumstances.
What I want you to know is that by changing your inside circumstances your perception of your outside circumstances changes almost immediately. Your reality then changes too.
Yes, the objective facts haven’t changed, but your relationship to those facts, your thoughts and the meaning you assign to those thoughts can all change your experience of what’s happening.
This is the birthplace of your renewed sense of calmness, confidence and peace of mind. (aka. Mojo)
What are Inside Circumstances?
These are your thoughts. It’s your understanding of how life and relationships really work. It’s your deeper view into the cause of shame in women and men. And it’s your realization that – at your core – you’re actually okay.
Your inside circumstances are the only true source of your calm, clear, confident sense of well-being. And that’s a good thing because that’s all you can actually influence.
That’s what I needed to learn…even though it’s NOT what I was Googling for.
So, I apologize for the little while lies, but it’s the only way most men will start their journey – looking for something they don’t really need. No matter how much we WANT something, it will never satisfy us if it’s not what we need.
One of the most powerful insights I’ve ever had is:
You can never get enough of what you don’t really need.
Once a man begins to understand this at a deep level, the lights come on…one by one. And by changing his perceptions he changes his emotions…which change his responses…which create outcomes he never imagined possible.
Dan and I had to go through this learning and it’s what we do with men every day. It’s what we love to help you understand. That you have ultimate control over your future – but you’re slightly off track in the way you’re steering your ship.
Here are some options for you to join us and start creating a whole new reality for yourself:
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If you want to get serious about becoming a man who knows he is going to live a life filled with happiness, connection, joy and meaning, we want to speak with you personally. We want to spend at least an hour at first to hear your voice, learn about your dreams and coach you through some of the barriers in front of you.
On this call we can offer you immediate tips to change what you’re dealing with right now. This will make you feel calmer…stronger…and more relaxed and measured every day over the holidays.
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We love teaching men these tools – how to be better, how to know who you are, what you stand for, what you want and how to CREATE it in your life through our Masculine Confidence coaching programs.
Our UK retreat from 24th – 27th April this year is now 50% full – we’ll be diving deep into what it means to be a masculine confident man and how to lead yourself and your relationships with others . What makes a woman desire a man and other men trust him? If it sounds like something that might interest you, find out more here.
The MEXICO MOJO MASTERY retreat for March 2020 is now 90% full! This is an advanced retreat for men who have had one-on-one coaching or have attended other retreats.and we can’t wait to meet up again in Punta Mita at the Hacienda Alegra. Click that link for some mind-blowing pics.
Our online course How to Defuse the Divorce Bomb is a deep and intense dive into handling yourself when you hear, “I love you but I’m not in love with you anymore.” Tim Wade and I host monthly live Q&A calls with all the students in this course which includes many other bonuses as well. Find out more here.
What if this next year everything changed for you?
That’s what we want for you brother.
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