Hey brother,
First, I want to invite you to our group coaching call this week at 12pm mountain time on Thursday 5th September, the topic of the call is “How do I really know who I am?“
In this call we will address:
What are the best tools to get more clear and grounded in our sense value, self-respect and self-esteem?
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How do I get clear about who I want to BECOME?
We’re going to have a great conversation that’s guaranteed to help you feel more clear and more connected to the man you want to be.
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I just shot an 11 minute video about JEALOUSY and I think you may want to watch it.
That is, if you have a jealous bone in your body, you need to watch it.
And, if you have the WORST kind of jealousy that is based in the absolutely GUTTED feeling of suspicion…that you’ve been betrayed, duped, disrespected, dismissed, replaced or rejected…I made the video for you.
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In this video, I address:
- The common, bottom line in ALL types of jealousy
- Jealousy based in “hunger” vs “envy”
- Jealousy based in scarcity, fear and comparison
- And the worst one…jealousy based in shame and unworthiness
The Simple and Scary Cure for Jealousy
Don’t you hate it when people give useless advice like:
“Hey, just don’t think about it.” or,
“Hey, you’re making too much of this.” or,
“Hey, just stop obsessing about it and let it go.”
The problem with curing jealousy is that we must goes deeper into the fear behind the jealous fears in your mind.
Jealousy isn’t just about your head being filled up with stories and imagined fears.
Jealousy is about an EMPTINESS inside of you that NO AMOUNT OF EXTERNAL ASSURANCE CAN FIX.
As I said in the video, insecurity is the #1 Human Emotional Disease.
- Food craving is caused by the empty, insecure feeling of hunger.
- Envying other people’s lives or possessions is caused by the empty, insecure feeling of not being enough.
- Protecting or defending our wealth, reputation or honor is caused by the empty, insecure feeling of a scarcity mindset.
- And feeling gutted by the suspicion of betrayal, disrespect or rejection is caused by the empty, insecure and shameful feeling of unworthiness.
It’s that last one that brings most men into the Goodguys2Greatmen community.
That one HURTS the most. And men don’t ask for help unless the pain level has reached epic proportions.
The scary cure for jealousy is LEARNING THAT YOU ARE WORTHY.
Notice I did NOT say, “learning to become worthy”.
Being worthy is not a place to get to. You’re already there, brother.
It never actually left you.
What you must learn now is how to make your natural, inherent worthiness and value a PLACE THAT YOU COME FROM.
When you learn to come from a place of worthiness, jealousy simply can’t survive.
Are you ready to ask for help yet?
Below are some options for you to get started right away…
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- We take YOU and your struggles seriously…because we’ve been there
- We know living in a sexless marriage is serious…and so is showing your kids what a healthy affectionate relationship looks like
- A lack of intimacy of all kinds is serious now and for the long term health of your marriage
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As Teddy Roosevelt said:
“In any moment of decision, the best thing you can do is the right thing, the next best thing is the wrong thing, and the worst thing you can do is nothing.”
