Hey brother,
Have you ever had one of these thoughts?
- After all I’ve done she could show more appreciation.
- All I do is give, give, give and I never seem to get anything in return.
- No matter what I do she simply refuses to lower her guard and drop down the walls she’s built around her heart!
If you’re a married man somewhere between 27 and 77, I’m guessing at some point you’ve thought (or said out loud) all of those things.
I spend 8 minutes in the video below explaining why this is the number one reason men don’t get the love, intimacy, appreciation and respect they want.
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I also give you some ideas on how to turn this around.
It’s simple, but not easy.
She already has a story about how you are…about the ways you go about trying to get her to give you what you want.
There’s only one way to stop the game of “giving to get” and stop living from “the kiddie pool” of masculinity. This is a shallow place of anxiety, fear and expectation. I know this place well…I used to spend a lot of time there.
In this video, I explain how to come from another place of fullness. This is a place where you GIVE because you’re overflowing with confident, self-affirming masculine energy. You give because you know you can’t run out.
You give without giving a shit about what comes back.
This is a mindset of crystal clear personal value and abundance. Pure Mountain Lion…zero Hummingbird!
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How Men are Still Being Taught to Play in the Kiddie Pool
In the video, I talk about this sleazy trend I’m seeing by email marketers. They all seem to be going to the same sleazy school that teaches them to play games to get business.
They play a shallow game of trying to tease you to ask them to show you how good they are at copywriting. The give absolutely nothing of value.
They talk about why I need to call them. They talk about how smart they are and how much they could do for me. Then they email 3 more times wondering why I’m not responding.
And that’s all they do. They TALK about what they could give me instead of just simply giving it to me.
I used to do this too. I thought I could TALK about all the great stuff I was doing or could do. I would “be nice” and “do nice things” and then get angry that I got nothing in return.
Nobody ever taught me HOW TO GIVE pure, unconditional, high value love, affection, appreciation and respect.
Nobody ever taught me that actually DEMONSTRATING those things…without attachment and without expectation…was the simple path to getting them back in spades.
Are you ready to learn this stuff before another decade passes?
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